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Oh man that’s gotta be tough /: It’s so hard getting over someone especially if they were your best friend. Maybe try asking him why he hasn’t been talking to you lately. But if you can’t get an answer out of him, keep reminding yourself that maybe it’s meant to be this way. Everything happens for a reason :) Try to focus on your new boyfriend and how happy he makes you. Focus on your friends that make you laugh and your family that loves you unconditionally. Push out the negative thoughts and make room for the positive ones. It’s not easy but you just have to keep reminding yourself of the things that make you happy and you’ll be over him sooner than you think.
Studies say it takes 17 months to fall out of love, so maybe try and give yourself a little more time to get over him before you make any big decisions. If you still have feelings for him it’s hard to overlook anything he did wrong. Including cheating, which no one should have to go through. If you really do love him and trust him enough to not hurt you again, I don’t think it would be a bad idea to try again, taking things slow. If you don’t trust him that much just keep telling yourself that you deserve someone that will treat you right and time heals everything. Next time you feel like doing any of self harm, stop what you’re doing. Get a good snack and turn on your favorite show or movie. It sounds simple and cliche but I promise you it helps. Think of how proud me and so many other people would be if you pushed past the urge to cut and went even one day longer without hurting yourself. You’ll feel amazing if you do :) Keep your head up beautiful!
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